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Showing posts with label good life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label good life. Show all posts

Thursday, December 10, 2015

Reality Check

Life sucks.
But for some it sucks more.
I just flew back in from the Philippines, It was more or less a yearly pilgrimage I make. My mom is there. She is living with the scourge Alzheimer's. I have family and friends who I treasure. But if I was to be selfish, I would rather go somewhere else. Don't get me wrong, the Philippines is a beautiful country. I would argue that it has the best beaches in the world. There is just so much poverty.
So when the Alexis Louise Quiza Foundation (ALQ), of which I am honored to be a director in their Board, came up with a project to feed street children, my yearly trip took on a nobler purpose.



A study said that there are 1.5 million street children in the Philippines. I thought, if we even are able to provide an hour of relief, from hunger and the heat, this trip would have been successful.

So, on November 25, the ALQ Foundation bought food from Jollibee,  partnered with Childhope Asia and fed street children at the Archdiocesan Shrine of Nuestra Senora De Guia.



We got to the site early. Prior to the feeding, my family and I elected to stop by and have a late lunch. Yellow Cab! It is my favorite pizza joint in the Philippines. Ironically, it fashions itself after everything New York, even though it's origin is purely Filipino. Anyway... We had our fill and started to make our way back to the Ermita Church...

By now, a group of kids where beginning to come. They were mostly pre-teens. I noticed some of them did not even have footwear. In my head, I wondered how they got around the grimy, blistering Manila streets barefoot.

Soon the hall was full of children. There was order in the chaos. They have obviously done this before. They set up the old rickety tables and plastic chairs that have seen better days. It was HOT. There were 2 small ceiling fans. One was broken. I was drenched in sweat. And it was the end of November! I imagine it was hot as hell in summer. (This is why as a side project, we bought 5 fans to use in the hall.) This same hall is used by volunteers to give the children a semblance of school.

 The Church, through benefactors feed this young ones one meal a day from Tuesdays to Saturdays. Our little Jollibee donation is definitely a treat. A break from the usual grub the church provides.

We were told that their usual meal for 50 children cost 1,500 pesos. That is less than $32! Definitely less than most meals I pay for a regular meal for 2 here in the States. I can imagine the meal for the children wasn't a feast.

Before the meal, I was asked to speak. I tried to wiggle out of it because, I had lost my voice a day before, but agreed because I wanted them to know that no matter how life seems bleak at certain times, there are people in the world who sincerely care for their welfare, and that they should not give up on what is good. The talk was more for me than them.

After that they prayed and thanked God for the food they are about to partake in.

What broke my heart was, we saw kids, try to hide away food on their plate...to take home for a family member...

That was the greatest lesson I learned. No matter how little you have, there is always somebody who always could need your help. I was touched that these kids would put aside the little they have for someone else. How can we not do the same? Message me for details on how to help feed street children through the Alexis Louise Quiza Foundation.


Friday, June 28, 2013

Semi-charmed life.


I sometimes forget I live a semi-charmed life.

It is easy to desire more. More money. A palatial home. A fancier car. Fame.

One would be lying if one says it has never crossed their mind. But happiness lies not in these things but in enjoying what one has.

A true happy man is one who is able to distinguish the difference between what he needs and what he wants.

When we can not get what we love, we must love what is within our reach.

Friday, December 31, 2010

Life = New Year party

Life may not be the New Year party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance.

Saturday, September 19, 2009

The world is whacked.


The world is whacked.
Mass media and advertising will have you believe that power, wealth and prestige bring you joy.
The movie Scarface is one of my favorite movies. I often tell people that I like it because it is a great "immigrant" story. A story of a refugee, who does well. I say that in jest. It is really a story about how the things "of this world" are temporary.
It also brings to mind an episode of Punk'd when they pretend to smash Justin Timberlake's guitar and Justin cries like a baby and calls his "mommy."
Material possession, prestige and power. The good life. Fast cars. Fast women (or men if you so prefer).
Hey who does not want to live life like a beer commercial? Sex, drugs and rock and roll. Isn't that why every teen picks up a guitar and wails like a banshee?
But we have seen how this house of cards crumbles so easily.
They say every man in America is just 3 tragedies away from being homeless. Make a bad decision. Lose your source of income. Get sick. Lose control. And soon you find yourself in the gutter of broken dreams.
You don't have to look far. How many people do you know who 2 years ago were living the good life? I know somebody who had 7 houses mansions to his name. He was thumbing his nose at the world. He became arrogant. He could buy anything he wanted. He was on top of the world. Last year, he lost everything. The repo man took away even his sofa. His family now lives in a room at his sister-in-law's house.
If money and status are the ultimate goal, no wonder we hear of people killing their whole family then commit suicide after the economy raped them. There was nothing else to live for.
As a young boy, I never forgot the scene in Scarface where they show how well Tony Montana lived. He had a huge statue with a globe in his house that revolved… it said "The World is Yours." Hmmm. Knowing what I know now. Not really.
Do not put your love into something that can be taken away by men.